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CHAPTER VIII WOMAN’S WRONGS “WOMAN’S Rights” is the unabashed demand of the New Woman in the West; “Woman’s Wrongs” is the whispered appeal of the few who dare ventilate the subject in the East, where native social reformers have been outcasted and excommunicated for striving to improve the domestic position of the weaker sex. Those two cries crystallise the contrast between the women of the two worlds. Up to now, we have been contemplating woman’s life in India from its best point of view — the virtuous wife not discontented with her lot, the accomplished courtesan queening it in society. Each in her lights and in her sphere is to be reckoned fortunate and happy. We now pass to the consideration of darker pictures. There are
four
hideous horrors in the treatment accorded to the female sex in India —
child-marriage, enforced widowhood, compulsory prostitution, fostered
by religion,
and infanticide confined to female infants. In comparison with the
three
former, the latter may almost be said to be humane. Infanticide is daughter-slaughter, and is chiefly practised by the rajpoots, who have a reputation for chivalry towards women! It is a direct outcome of caste and custom, and an act of callous selfishness. The Hindu religion makes the marriage of a daughter obligatory, and threatens the parents with the most dire punishment if it is postponed after the year of puberty — punishment on a par with other Hindu religious penalties, which ordinarily include disgrace in this life and several million years in hell in the next. In the case of the rajpoot, the social rule requires him to procure as a husband for his daughter a man of a higher clan than his own. This is often difficult, and always expensive. The payment of a large dowry can be avoided only by incurring the stigma of an inferior alliance, against which the abnormal rajpoot pride revolts. He cuts the Gordian knot by the simple process of killing his infant daughter, either by strangling at birth, giving her an opium pill, covering the mother’s nipple with poison to be taken in with the first sustenance, or by neglect and starvation. Under native rule the practice was universal; under the British Government it has been greatly reduced, but has not disappeared altogether. A writer in 1818 mentions that amongst the offspring of eight thousand rajpoots in a particular district there were probably not more than thirty females living of the same caste or clan as the men. When the Infanticide Act of 1890 was passed, the worst case quoted, as proving its necessity, was that of a tribe where the proportion of girls to boys alive was eight to eighty. In one district several hundred children were returned as “carried off by wolves,” all of whom were girls! The difficulty of the detection, and through it the prevention, of this crime lies in the fact that the murderer undoubtedly possesses the sympathy of his fellow-caste men. The death of a daughter, before the expense of marrying her has to be incurred, is a matter for devout thankfulness and cordial congratulation in many cases. Thus we
see that
woman’s wrongs in India begin with her birth, when she is sometimes
killed, and
assuredly never welcomed. The next injustice is the disposal of her
person in
childhood, which does not always take the form of marrying her to a
husband.
The Hindu religion requires brides for the idols who represent its
deities.
They are called Devidasis,
Muralis, and
other names, and their duties
are to dance at the shrines, sing obscene hymns, and generally delight
the
gods, and pander to the lusts or avarice of the priests of the temples.
They
are a recognised religious institution. These
temple girls
are obtained when quite young by purchase or gift. In the former case,
the
parents sell their daughters when they are children; in the latter, the
girl is
a thank-offering made by Hindus of certain castes for recovery from
illness or
relief from misfortune. Occasionally a man presents his own offspring,
but if
he is rich, it is considered more respectable to buy a poor person’s
daughter
and present her. But in neither case is there any sense of shame
attached to
the sacrifice, and in the contorted morality of the Hindus, the
profession to
which the girl is consigned is a most honourable one, and carnal
intercourse
with the temple girls “an act of faith and worship, and, according to
some
writers, it effaces all sins”! There are thousands of these poor
girl-slaves in
the temples of India, who are the common property of the priests, and
were
consigned to their infamous lives in the name of religion whilst they
were yet,
what we should call, “in the nursery.” If they give birth to daughters,
the
latter are always brought up in the mother’s profession. There is no
lack of
recruits, who are accepted from all castes. Sometimes there is an
initiatory
ceremony, when the girl is formally married to a dagger, the wedding
being
conducted with all the pomp and circumstance that would be observed in
her
marriage to a husband. The temple
girl is
the only Hindu woman who has any place or share in the rites and
observances of
religion, and in the same way that her professional sister, the
nautch-girl,
holds a most esteemed place in Hindu society, so the Devidasi stands next in
importance to the holy priests who
sacrifice at the shrine. In some of the temples, the religious
establishments
are enormous, as for instance at that of Juggernauth at Puree, where
about six
hundred persons are employed. The idol is treated as if it were a human
being;
there are officiating priests to perform such offices for it as taking
it to
bed, awakening it, giving it water, washing its face, offering it a
toothbrush,
counting its robes, feeding it with rice, carrying its umbrella, and
telling it
the time. And to delight the idol, but more particularly the priests,
there are
a hundred and twenty temple girls, who exercise a religious ministry,
and are
termed brides of the gods. Perhaps
the most
inhuman wrong practised on the women of India is child-marriage. As I
have
mentioned, every Hindu girl is a wife or widow at fourteen, and in many
parts
of India much younger. Girls have actually been married before they
were a year
old, and when from four to six years of age, they very commonly cease
to be
“single.” Eight is a marriageable age, and twelve is the maximum,
except in a
few districts. Consummation of marriage takes place at the earliest
possible
date nature allows, and it is here that revolting abuse has long
established
itself. The
surrender of a
child-wife to her husband at a totally immature age has been the custom
in
India for all ages. It is one of those iniquitous institutions with
which the
British Government has ever been chary of dealing, for it stops short
of actual
murder. But about ten years ago, the publication of the terrible and
tragic
details in connection with the death of a child-bride raised such a
storm of
indignation that it compelled legislation in the name of civilisation,
and the
“age of consent” was raised to twelve years by enactment. Prior to
this, many
marriages had been consummated at ten. But to legislate and to carry
legislation into effect in the zenana
are two very different things, and when legislation goes against
old-established
custom and religion, it often becomes inoperative. Nearly fifty years
ago, Lord
Canning legalised the remarriage of widows, but the statistics of
to-day show
that out of approximately twenty-three millions of Hindu widows only
about
twenty-five are remarried annually! The Hindu considers it wrong to
withhold a
wife from her husband when she has reached the age of puberty, and no
legislation can prevent it when the parents of the bride and the
husband’s
household are in agreement. Of course,
the
physical development in a tropical country explains in a measure what
would be
impossible in our own. Instances are on record of Hindu women being
great-grandmothers at forty-eight, each generation having given birth
to
daughters at the age of twelve. Wives have been sent to their husbands’
houses
at the age of eight. Nor does the inhumanity of it end here, for
although
child-wives are more frequently married to child-husbands, there are
hundreds
of thousands of cases where the husband is a man of forty, fifty, or
even
sixty, and the child-wife may be his fourth or fifth. The State of
Mysore,
which in this respect is considerably in advance of the rest of India,
passed a
law in 1894 prohibiting the marriage of girls under eight years of age,
and
absolutely forbidding the marriage of men of fifty and upwards with
girls under
fourteen. A similar Marriage Bill introduced into the Madras
Legislative
Council was rejected, and the British Government, with its peculiar
sensitiveness to interfering with the social customs of the natives,
has done
nothing. It would be impossible to exaggerate the evils of child-marriage. Physically, it leads to torture, deformity, constitutional ill-health, and, as has been indicated, even to death by violence. It produces weak and sickly offspring, and nips the sentiment of maternal love. I have heard of a child-mother who was accustomed slyly to pinch her infant to make it cry, so as to induce her elders to take it, and release her to play. Happy for the child-wife if she has the spirit to play! When she goes to her husband’s house, it is to an utterly strange place, where, under the patriarchal system of the Hindus, she has to subordinate herself not only to her mother-in-law, but to all the elder generation of women in the house. It is pitiable for the child-wife, torn from a home that contained all she knew of happiness, to be obliged to submit herself to the temper, caprice, and often tyranny of her husband, but when to this is added the despotism and cruelty of several elderly women, who often avail themselves of her helplessness, and if she fails to find favour in her husband’s eyes, almost invariably take their cue of unkind conduct from him, her lot may be better imagined than described. She has absolutely no place to go to for comfort and sympathy if it is not to be found in her new home. There is no escape, and no matter what her sufferings, her parents’ home is closed to her. An appeal to them meets with a rigid command to submit herself to her husband. Mrs.
Fuller, in her
book on the Wrongs of Indian
Womanhood,
gives a very pitiful illustration of an unhappy child-marriage, which
may be
taken as typical of thousands of others. A young Brahmin lad of sixteen
was
married to a girl of nine, who went to reside with him a year later.
“The
girl’s appearance did not suit the young husband, and if she went near
him to
serve him with food, he would hit her on the crown of her head with his
knuckles. Though she was but ten, yet they expected her to do every
kind of
work. She did the household work, brought water for all, cleaned the
utensils
and floor, did the washing, milked the cow, and kept its stable clean.
If the
cow did not yield the proper quantity of milk, she was punished. . . .
Her
father-in-law would hang her up to the beam of the roof and beat her
pitilessly. He would sometimes suspend her to the same place by her
ankles, and
under her head, thus suspended, place a vessel with red-hot coals, on
which he
sprinkled red pepper to almost suffocate her. Sometimes, when he had
hung her to
the rope, for fear she should be tempted to break the rope, and fall,
he would
lay branches of prickly pear on the floor beneath her. Once or twice,
this man
inflicted on her punishments which decency forbids us to relate. . . .
When her
father heard of all this cruelty, he exhorted her not to run away, but
to stay
and die.” In those last three words, you may sum up the life sentence
that
Hinduism passes on the Indian wife. The father would have been
disgraced had
his daughter left her brutal husband’s home, and the woman’s wrongs did
not
count in the balance when his own interests were threatened. You might
think
that under such conditions widowhood would become a compensation,
instead of
which it is the crowning curse of Indian womanhood. For twenty
centuries, the
custom of suttee or the self-immolation of widows, existed in India,
and
presents the best commentary on the state of widowhood. Even within the
last
twenty years, cases have occurred in the native State of Nepaul. It is
true
that the act of suttee was held to be most meritorious, and supposed to
secure
the widow three hundred and fifty million years of connubial felicity,
and
assure salvation to her family for seven generations; but such
visionary
rewards probably had less influence in inducing widows to face the
frightful
ordeal than the knowledge of what their future lot would be. The lot of
the
Hindu widow has not changed, and, in the words of one of the social
reformers
of the race, it is described as “Cold Suttee.” Briefly
speaking,
the Hindu widow is condemned to perpetual mourning, mortification, and
degradation. Her first sacrifice is her hair, which is shaved off, the
popular
belief being that it binds her husband’s soul in hell until she parts
with it.
In which connection, I may mention the case of an old man and his wife
who
caught the plague; he predeceased her by four hours, and yet, in the
interim,
although she was senseless and moribund, her head was shaved. To return
to the
widow’s lot. She is compelled to dress in the commonest and coarsest
garments,
to relinquish all her ornaments and jewels, and to display no emblem
and enjoy
no privilege of the married state. She may eat only one meal a day and
has to
fast twice a month. She is precluded from attending any festivity, must
never presume
to feast or try to enjoy herself, and be careful not to allow her
shadow to
fall on food or water that is about to be eaten or drunk. She is
regarded as
carrying ill-luck with her wherever she goes, and her appearance is
inauspicious. A man starting on a journey will postpone it if he
catches sight
of a widow as he sets out, and the good widow will shrink back when she
meets
or crosses a man’s path for fear of being the harbinger of evil to him.
If she
has borne no children to her husband, she is burned without the rites
of
religion. It is, perhaps, necessary to explain specifically that all
these
things tend to her spiritual exaltation. A
middle-aged widow
who has borne children can manage to support this degraded existence.
If she is
the mother of a son, a sort of clemency is extended to her, for she has
performed the first, and immeasurably the greatest, duty of Indian
womanhood.
Only by his son, begotten in lawful wedlock, performing certain
exequial rites
and ceremonies can a father be delivered from one of the Hindu hells;
failure
to bear a son is a first cause for introducing a second wife into the
husband’s
house. A widow who has borne only daughters may find comfort in them.
But the
child-widow, whose husband has died when she was, perhaps, only six or
seven
years old, and to whom it was impossible to fulfil the prime duty of a
wife —
for her is reserved the cruelest and most unjust treatment of any. She
is
peculiarly repugnant to the community, one to whom no consideration or
pardon
can be extended, but only the unreasonable and unremitting hatred and
abuse of
her husband’s people. For widowhood is regarded as a punishment for the
sins
committed by the woman, and the failure to bear a son is the Sin
Unpardonable. It is
difficult to
imagine anything more tragical or pathetic than the unfolding of this
fate to
the child-widow. She is too young to know what has happened, or only
comprehends it very vaguely. She continues to play with her companions,
for she
is not called upon to enter the state of widowhood until she reaches
the age of
puberty. As a child, it makes little difference in her life, saving for
a
bitter word cast at her now and then, the reason for which she does not
understand, or her hasty ejectment as a bad omen what time she may have
unconsciously wandered into the proximity of a wedding-feast or some
other
festivity. But at length there comes a day when womanhood overtakes
her, and
she who never committed any sin has to suffer. The barber is called in,
and her
hair is shaved off; her bright clothes are taken away from her, and she
is told
that henceforth she must wear the sackcloth of mourning; her jewels, if
she has
any, are distributed amongst others; and she enters into a life of
social
ostracism. For what reason? For being the relict of a husband whose
face she
saw but once. More probably than not of a child-husband, and when you
come to
consider the statistics of mortality amongst children, you may gather
some idea
of the risk encountered by the Hindu bride when she enters into the
state of
matrimony! Such a
system and
such treatment naturally lead to terrible results. Life becomes
hopeless and
intolerable, and frequently ends in suicide or enters into shame. In
most
cases, the child-widow has become the slave and drudge of the
household; no
work is too hard to impose upon her, and she is a stranger to any
kindness or
consideration. Probably she has a little more freedom than the wife is
allowed,
and there come to her temptations which may not be resisted. And if she
succumbs to them, who can blame her? Very
frequently she
falls into the clutches of the Brahmins, and is enjoined to make a
pilgrimage
to one of the holy cities to pray for her husband. The men of the
temples are
amorous, and the idols do not disdain young and pretty widows. It is
natural
for Hindu as for English widows to seek the solace of their religion.
Bindraban
is one of the holiest places of pilgrimage; there Krishna is
worshipped, and to
his shrine flock countless hosts of pilgrims, amongst them a vast
number of
widows. Here are the experiences and observations of one which have
been
recorded from her own lips. “When we
arrived at
Bindraban, the priests of the place met us at the railway station, and
got us a
house, which was so filthy we could not endure it. We sought another,
and found
a good one belonging to a holy man. When he saw us women, he was very
anxious
for us to stay, but we knew what it meant, and left immediately. . . .
The
Brahmins’ agents tell the widows, whom they seek in the villages and
towns,
that they will go to heaven if they proceed to these sacred places, and
live
there, and serve the priests, and worship the god Krishna. The poor
ignorant
women are easily persuaded to leave their homes, as many of then are
very
unhappy, and think it is far better to go and live and die in
sanctuary,
serving Krishna. Thus thousands of widows, young and old, go to Mathura
or
Bindraban, and fall into the snares of the priests. They soon expend
the little
they have in giving alms and presents to priests, and when all is
spent, cannot
return to their native land. Then, if they are tolerably young and
good-looking, the holy men, saints, and religious mendicants are all
after
them, and get them to live in their houses, first as servants, then as
mistresses. Or they hire them out to other men in the towns and
villages. If
the women are unwilling to lead immoral lives, they are told it is no
sin to
live thus in the service of Krishna. When they get old and displeasing
to the
men, they are turned out to shift for themselves, ragged, helpless,
seemingly
forsaken by all, and left to die like dogs. . . . We went round the
town, and
saw the condition of these women. There were thousands of widows,
mostly from
Bengal, and the heartless cruelty of man to woman, which we saw on
every side,
is almost beyond description.” Woman’s
wrongs are
everywhere man’s rights in India; the right to kill in infancy; the
right to
ruin; the right to coerce; the right to ill-treat. England has
emancipated the
African slave; her laws have protected the brute creation from cruelty.
What is
wanted in the twentieth century is a Wilberforce to rescue Indian
womankind
from her slavery, and a legislation to teach her lord and master the
instincts
of common humanity. |